The Great Purge: Why I Ditched All My Stuff
Okay, so I’ve always been… let’s just say, *attached* to my belongings. Not hoarder-level, but definitely sentimental. You know, like keeping concert tickets from 2008 because, you never know, maybe that band will reunite and I’ll suddenly *need* that stub. That kind of thing. But recently, I’d been feeling suffocated. Like my possessions were actually owning *me*. I was constantly cleaning, organizing, and still felt like I was drowning in clutter. It was stressing me out!
Then I stumbled upon some articles about minimalism. At first, I was like, “Yeah, right. That’s for people who live in tiny houses and only own three shirts.” But the more I read, the more I started to think, “Huh, maybe there’s something to this.” The idea of a simpler life, less stuff, more freedom… it was appealing. Extremely appealing. So, I decided to dive in headfirst. Maybe a little *too* headfirst. I mean, I basically went Marie Kondo on my entire apartment. And I do mean *entire*. Clothes, books, kitchen gadgets (so many kitchen gadgets!), even furniture. If it didn’t “spark joy,” it was gone. Donation pile, trash pile, even a “sell on Facebook Marketplace” pile that grew to epic proportions. I felt lighter instantly. Liberated!
But then came the… aftermath.
The Minimalist Hangover: Regret and Empty Spaces
The initial high of decluttering lasted about a week. Seven glorious days of pristine surfaces and empty drawers. It was… peaceful. Almost sterile, honestly. Then reality hit. Like, whoa, I actually got rid of *everything*. I remember specifically the moment I realised I’d donated my favourite cozy sweater. The one I always wore on rainy days with a cup of tea? Gone. Vanished. I could have just stored it better. Ugh, what a mess!
And then there were the empty spaces. Suddenly, my apartment felt huge and echoing. I actually started to miss my cluttered shelves. They held memories, you know? And all the books! Now I had, like, five books. I felt… exposed. I’m not sure if that’s the right word, but it’s close.
I started questioning everything. Had I gone too far? Was I even a minimalist? Or just a really bad decision-maker with a penchant for impulsive purges? Was I the only one confused by this? Who even knows what’s next?
I did, however, keep the concert ticket stubs. Some things are sacred, okay?
The Unexpected Perks (and the Downsides)
It wasn’t all bad, though. Honestly, I did discover some unexpected perks to my minimalist experiment. First, cleaning became a breeze. I mean, when you have practically nothing, there’s not much to clean! And I actually saved a lot of money. Not just from selling stuff, but also from not buying things. I used to be a sucker for impulse purchases – cute mugs, trendy candles, random gadgets I didn’t need. But now, I think twice (or three times) before buying anything. Do I *really* need it? Will it truly add value to my life? Or will it just become another source of clutter?
I also found that I had more time. Less time spent organizing and cleaning meant more time for things I actually enjoyed. Reading (borrowing books from the library, of course!), hiking, spending time with friends. I even started learning a new language. Funny thing is, I probably wouldn’t have had the mental space to do any of that if I was still surrounded by all my stuff.
The biggest downside, aside from the missing sweater situation, was the pressure I put on myself. I felt like I had to be *perfect* minimalist. Every decision had to be carefully considered, every purchase justified. It was exhausting. I mean, I couldn’t even buy a new houseplant without feeling guilty!
Finding My Own Version of Minimal(ish)
So, where am I now? Well, I’m definitely not a hardcore minimalist. I’m probably more of a… minimalist-ish. I’ve learned that it’s not about owning the fewest possible things. It’s about owning things that I love, that serve a purpose, and that bring me joy. It’s also about being intentional with my purchases and mindful of the clutter I bring into my life.
It’s kind of like dieting, you know? You can go on a super restrictive diet, lose a bunch of weight, but then gain it all back (and then some) because it’s not sustainable. Minimalism is similar. It’s not about deprivation, it’s about finding a balance that works for you.
I made a mistake by getting rid of my favorite sweater. But I learned a lot, I mean really learned a lot. If you’re as curious as I was, you might want to dig into some books about mindful consumption. It helped me. Now, I only buy things I truly need and I am more intentional with my choices. It is a journey, not a destination.
A Practical Tip: The One-In-One-Out Rule
One thing that’s really helped me maintain a clutter-free(ish) life is the one-in-one-out rule. Basically, for every new item I bring into my home, I get rid of one similar item. Buy a new shirt? Donate an old one. Get a new book? Donate one you’ve already read (and probably won’t read again). It’s a simple but effective way to prevent clutter from accumulating. I started doing this after, yeah, after I did my first big minimalist purge. I needed something to prevent me from re-accumulating all the excess stuff.
So, yeah, my minimalist experiment was a bit of a rollercoaster. There were moments of pure bliss, moments of regret, and a whole lot of in-between. But ultimately, it taught me a valuable lesson: that true happiness doesn’t come from owning more stuff. It comes from living intentionally, mindfully, and with a focus on the things that truly matter. And maybe, just maybe, keeping that one cozy sweater.
